Return it, of course. You don't steal from fellow fa/tg/uys. I don't do differences by gender - she's one of ours if she's so broken at losing a Forgeworld Titan.
Also, I wouldn't believe even for a moment she said that stuff seriously (we all do hyperbole when we're distressed), and even if, not even think for a moment of trying to cash that in. Seriously, that would be just wrong.
That said, if I can manage to get a chat going and get a date, well, rules to be me. If not, ah well, I did some good today. Either way, I win.